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Consider the Lilies said in June 28th, 2010 at 8:43 am    

I'm nursing my twins right now so I'll do my best to type this one handed. My girls were born at 36 weeks. One was able to stay with me and the other was admitted to the NICU during our first night due her glucose crashing. I spent the next two days going between my room and NICU nursing each baby. We were able to take her home the day after I was discharged- she was there 3 days. We did have to supplement at first to keep their glucose levels up due to their prematurity, however they have been strictly breastfed since we have been home and they are nursing great and growing right on track.

jess l said in June 28th, 2010 at 10:01 am    

Look at the Womanly Art of Breastfeeding.

#1. You do NOT Have to stop breastfeeding. That's just being uneducated about breastfeeding, and completely wrong. It only takes 200 calories extra a day to completely breastfeed a baby, which is about what you find in a medium sized apple. Water is much more important.

#2. As someone mentioned, the human body is incredible, and the breast is great at providing exactly what is needed. Your regular milk will be produced throughout the pregnancy. WHen the hormones kick in to start labor, the consistency and composition of the milk will change to benefit the newborn.

#3. Milk supply does not increase during pregnancy, unless it is in response to the needs of the child already nursing. Breastmilk is built on supply and demand….as long as someone is demanding, then supply will match the demand. Sometimes it will decrease a bit at the beginning, usually because hormonal changes affect the flavor, and the child will temporarily slow down as they decide if they like it or not.

#4. When the new baby is born, milk will reflect primarily the dietary needs of the newborn. Higher in antibodies, and high in carbs, and low in fat to get rapid growth going. It will not hurt the other child, in fact, it's probably beneficial for the older child in that they get a second chance at a high rate of those wonderful antibodies that mom provides through breastfeeding. You will need to focus on nursing a lot to establish supply, but the fact is that a child that is old enough to be a sibling, will probably not be nursing as a primary means of nutrition, but secondary, immunological and emotional.

#5. Your diet and care is especially critical, in that you should be choosing very healthy fruits and veggies, high protein and whole grains. Lots of water is important to successful breastfeeding. Choosing to reserve energy for yourself and children is much better than wasting it on a 'better home' or 'garden' LOL! Let the housework go, or find friends to help. Make quick and easy meals, get a crockpot.

danni.xiong said in June 28th, 2010 at 7:35 pm    

Yes it is right; I would still keep the pump so you can do it while your baby isn't feeding but your milk will gain better if the baby actually attaches to you…their mouths work better than the suction cups. You even have more milk left after you pump than the pump can get to. You should ask a lactation consultant about taking Fenugreek pills. I took them and it helped with my supply until I had enough. I took like 8-12 pills a day and I smelled like maple syrup LOL, but it was worth it. I supplimented pumped milk and formula until I could solely breastfeed on my own….it took about 3 months for my son to get the hang of it too. Keep trying it is worth it in the end. Good luck to you!

Sum L said in June 29th, 2010 at 11:40 am    

The nursing every two hours was likely due to a growth spurt, not the cut back on solids. I say that because you can't be feeding her much solids to make a difference considering you just started two weeks ago.

I'm not a fan of "schedules", my thought is that I eat when I'm hungry, not when someone tells me I should be hungry. I always let my daughter tell me when she wanted to eat and when she was full.

Your original plan to nurse first then offer solids is the right one. You NEVER want to have her eat solids in place of a nursing, even if that means she doesn't want any solids after nursing. There is no solid out there that is more nutritious than breastmilk.

She's only 6 months old, and breastfed babies actually don't need solids until they are a year old. Solids at this point are just for getting used to new tastes and textures. If she doesn't want much, that's great…all she should be getting is a couple of bites here and there.

If she refuses the baby food altogether, that's fine too. Just continue to nurse on demand. You could also try waiting another month or two until her pincher grasp (picking something up with first finger and thumb) is mastered and then offer her diced soft foods such as cooked carrots or Cheerios…she might be more receptive to "real food".

Again, it's okay if she doesn't really want solids now. Just continue to nurse on demand and continue to offer the solids. As her stomach grows, she'll be able to take in more.

My first daughter, even at 9 months, was only eating solids a few times a week, and just a few bites.

Tali B said in June 30th, 2010 at 7:08 am    

My daughter lost interest around 19 months.

As long as you're maintaining some supply then you will be able to build it back up if he gets interested again. If he starts nursing more you'll make more, you know.

Edit: You can make sure he's getting enough liquids by watching his poop. If he's getting constipated then it's not enough.

My daughter wouldn't take water, milk or juice from a cup at that age. She would sip liquids out of of smaller things, like the cap from the juice bottle or a spoon. It was a pain, but when she was away from me for the day her grandparents would do it to make sure she stayed hydrated. It worked and after a couple of months she decided to drink from a cup after all.

tanner said in June 30th, 2010 at 9:11 pm    

You're going about this process pretty well. Your breast milk supply gradually decreases, so you don't have rock-hard breasts from being too full. Your baby takes more and more formula, and less and less breast milk, until he's completely weaned.

Some possible reasons why this isn't going as smoothly as you'd like:

— Your baby doesn't like the taste of the particular formula he's getting. Consult with your pediatrician, as well as La Leche League if there's one in your area. You may be able to use a different formula, or even wean your baby directly to 2% or to whole milk from a bottle.

— The temperature of the formula may be too warm. Babies can stand formula that's a little cooler than breast milk, but they dislike it when it's too hot.

— The shape of the bottle's nipple may feel strange to him. I believe there are specially-shaped nipples that more closely resemble the way a human nipple feels in the baby's mouth — you could try some of those.

— You're giving him an all-breastmilk feeding at times, so he still expects that. Try making a four-ounce bottle of formula each time, and offering him that first at each feeding, when he's most hungry. Hold him close, the same way you do when breast feeding. If he finishes that, and still seems hungry, then let him finish with your breast milk.

— If he still has a strong preference for breast milk, you could try pumping some and mixing it with formula, gradually increasing the proportion of formula in the bottle.

I'm sure that with the help and advice of your pediatrician and other people who are more familiar with your particular situation, your baby will adapt to the change without too much more fuss.

ticktock said in July 1st, 2010 at 6:30 am    

"Tanning is completely compatible with breastfeeding and will not alter the milk whatsoever. There is no record of any dangers to the breastfed baby in relation to tanning. Sometimes clients are given Carotene to enhance the tanning – that should be avoided while breastfeeding. Make sure to protect your nipples from burn (for your own comfort more than anything), and keep in mind that ultraviolet exposure ages skin prematurely and increases the risk of cancer."

Bare Nekkid TRUTH! said in July 1st, 2010 at 1:56 pm    

A breast feeding cape for feeding in public. It offers a lot of privacy.

Zip Lock baggies for storing breast milk.

Lansinoh for Chapped Nipples.

Congrats! =)

noseyparker4 said in July 1st, 2010 at 7:17 pm    

I've always just used the basic Evenflow bottles and stuck with the nipples that came with the bottle. I used glass bottles for the smaller ones, but now that he's on the 8 oz bottle, I've switched to plastic. He's never been picky about bottle types.

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