Well, if the spot is warm and red, she could have mastitus. It's an infection of the milk ducts and it occurs when the baby doesn't empty the breast all the way. I would suggest that after the baby feeds on that side, pump the rest of the milk out. If you don't have a breast pump, you can hand express the milk. Start at the top where the breast meets the chest wall and squeeze gently as if kneading bread. Rotate your hand around the breast and gradually move down towards the nipple. At this point you can stay in the nipple, areola area. Squeeze firmly, but gently where the areola meets the skin and sort of roll your fingers towards your nipplle. Repeat this until there isn't any milk coming out. (or it's just a bit) Don't give up on the theory that the baby is latching on wrong. Sometimes the mother has a hard time getting comfortable with the baby on her non dominate side. Keep trying. If the nipple itself hurts while the baby is latched on, use your pinky finger to break the seal of the baby's lips on your breast and gently pull it out. Try again. Make sure your nipple is in the center of the baby's mouth and that it took most of your areola into it's mouth. Also make sure that the baby's ear, shoulder and hip are in a straight line. If the baby's head is turned, it may be sucking unevenly. use pillows, blankets anything you can to make it more comfy. Try different chairs, even the floor. It may also work well if you lay on your side with the breast closest to the matress as the one you're nursing from. It's easier to get the baby aligned that way!! It also gives your arms and back a break! Good luck!!! Dont' give up yet…

lol 4:36 the baby gives the rude finger

Pumped breastmilk is good at room temperature for 8-10 hours.

Don't worry- your baby won't eat spoiled milk, anyway

ETA: From http://www.breastfeed-essentials.com/storagehandling.html:

STORAGE
Human milk has been found to have properties that protect it from bacterial contamination which allow it to be stored longer than was previously thought. Guidelines for breastmilk storage are as follows:

Freshly expressed breastmilk may be kept at room temperature for up to 10 hours (colostrum or milk expressed within 6 days of delivery can be stored 12 hours at room temperature).

see 1:41 the baby’s pointing the middle finger ….

Not a terrible video. Some good tips on positioning, however, scheduled feeding is generally not good advice for a new mother. Instead, try breastfeeding as often as baby needs. This way baby has more chance to thrive based on his/her individual needs. I also recommend contacting La Leche League International LLLi . org if you have concerns or need other advice.

i wanna be a lactation consultant

It's good that you have breast milk frozen. Make sure you have as much frozen as possible. Dumping and wasting once thru the night is a good idea simply so your breasts don't become impacted and sore. I think that by the time you are no longer feeling the effects of the alcohol, it should be out of your breast milk. But depending on how much you drink, the timing can be much longer.

So if it were me, I'd pump enough ahead of time to get the baby through the night and then some. Have more breastmilk saved than you might think is necessary because you never know, as the evening progresses, you may be out longer than you plan or you may have a drink later than the planned stopping time or more to drink altogether than you plan.

It takes approximately 3 to 4 hours for the alcohol from one drink to leave your breastmilk. So you need to keep this in mind when deciding how much alcohol to drink. The more you drink, the longer it will take for the alcohol to leave your breastmilk. I know it's your 21st birthday, but you may want to still drink in moderation.

Here's a reputable site with good information; it's the La Leche League.

http://www.llli.org/FAQ/alcohol.html

Breastfeeding is more than a lifestyle choice — it's an important health choice. Any amount of time that you can do it will help both you and your baby. There are many benefits of breast milk for mothers, babies, and others.

Benefits for Babies, Moms, and Families
Breastfeeding is normal and healthy for infants and moms.

Breast milk has disease-fighting cells called antibodies that help protect infants from germs, illness, and even SIDS. Infant formula cannot match the exact chemical makeup of human milk, especially the cells, hormones, and antibodies that fight disease.
Breastfeeding is linked to a lower risk of these health problems: In Infants: In Moms:
Ear infections
Stomach viruses
Diarrhea
Respiratory infections
Atopic dermatitis
Asthma
Obesity
Type 1 and type 2 diabetes
Childhood leukemia
Sudden infant death syndrome or SIDS
Necrotizing enterocolitis, a disease that affects the gastrointestinal tract in pre-term infants
Type 2 diabetes
Breast cancer
Ovarian cancer
Postpartum depression (PPD)

Studies are still looking at the effects of breastfeeding on osteoporosis and weight loss after birth.

How small is a newborn's tummy?

Photo courtesy of La Leche League International

Breast milk is different from infant formula. Colostrum, the thick yellow first breast milk that you make during pregnancy and just after birth, will give your baby the best start at life. It is known as "liquid gold." It is very rich in nutrients and antibodies to protect your baby as he or she first enters the world. Although your baby only gets a small amount of colostrum at each feeding, it matches the amount his or her tiny stomach can hold. A newborn stomach is only the size of a large marble at first!

Your milk changes over time to meet your baby's needs. Your breast milk that begins to be made by the third to fifth day after birth has just the right amount of fat, sugar, water, and protein that is needed for a baby's growth. It will be a thinner type of milk, but just as full of all of the nutrients and antibodies for your baby.

For most babies, breast milk is easier to digest than formula. It takes time for their stomachs to adjust to digesting the proteins in formula because they are made from cow's milk.

Premature babies do better when breastfed compared to premature babies who are fed formula.

Additional Resources
For more information on infant formula safety issues, visit the U.S. Food and Drug Administration.

When you breastfeed, there are no bottles and nipples to sterilize. Unlike human milk straight from the breast, infant formula has a chance of being contaminated.

Breastfeeding makes your life easier. You do not have to purchase, measure, and mix formula. There are no bottles to warm in the middle of the night!

Breastfeeding can save you between $1,160 and $3,915 per year, depending on the brand of formula.

A mother can satisfy her baby's hunger right away with breastfeeding.

Breastfeeding requires a mother to take some quiet relaxed time for herself and her baby, helping them bond. Physical contact is important to newborns and can help them feel more secure, warm, and comforted. Breastfeeding mothers may have increased self-confidence and feelings of closeness and bonding with their infants.

Breastfeeding during an emergency can save lives.

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Benefits for Society
Breastfeeding saves on health care costs. Total medical care costs for the nation are lower for fully breastfed infants than never-breastfed infants since breastfed infants typically need fewer sick care visits, prescriptions, and hospitalizations.

Breastfeeding contributes to a more productive workforce. Breastfeeding mothers miss less work, as their infants are sick less often. Employer medical costs also are lower and employee productivity is higher.

Breastfeeding is better for our environment because there is less trash and plastic waste compared to that produced by formula cans and bottle supplies.

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The U.S. Surgeon General Recommends Breastfeeding
The U.S. Surgeon General recommends that babies be fed with breast milk only for the first six months of life. This means not giving your baby any other food or drink — not even water — during this time. Drops of liquid vitamins, minerals, and medicines are, of course, fine, as advised by your baby's doctor. It is even better if you can breastfeed for your baby's first year or longer, for as long as you both wish.

Solid iron-rich foods, such as iron-fortified cereals and pureed vegetables and meats, can be started when your baby is around six months old. Before that time, a baby's stomach cannot digest them properly. Solids do not replace breastfeeding. Breast milk stays the baby's main source of nutrients during the first year. Beyond one year, breast milk can still be an important part of your child's diet

Aside from all this useful information, I breastfed

really useful